I bring an energy my haters secretly love

I don’t think I have haters actually; I’m pretty well liked I think because I have a nice speaking voice and a generosity of spirit but also a barbed discernment when called for. Working on upsetting more people. I am a writer and editor, I am single and dating non-monogamously. I’m thinking about getting lasik but I’m scared and maybe it’s a bit silly. I take piano lessons. I like to run but in a cool way where I’m bad at it. Looking for someone(s) to be my buddy and my pal!